I talk to cat parents every week who are at the end of their rope.
The fighting. The spraying. The tension. It's destroying their peace β and their relationship with their cats.
One woman told me her husband said: "The cat goes, or I do."
If that sounds familiar, I need you to hear this:
Your cat isn't bad. They're scared.
When cats feel safe, they release a natural signal that says: "This is home. We're family."
But when they're stressed? That signal disappears.
Without it, your cats see each other as strangers. Threats. Intruders in their territory.
That's why they fight. That's why they spray. That's why they hide.
As one veterinarian put it:
"You can't train a scared cat into calm. You have to change the signal the home is sending."
The good news? You can restore that signal.