How to Celebrate Your Cat's Birthday (Gotcha Day Ideas Too)

A party hat sits in your cart. A cat cake recipe is open in another tab. Your cat is asleep in the sun. She cares that breakfast came on time and that her spot by the window is free.

So here's the short answer. The best way to celebrate your cat's birthday is a quiet day built around her. Play her favorite game and give her one new toy. Then offer a small snack that fits her daily food. The cake, the balloons and the guests are really for us.

Below are nine cat birthday ideas, plus the party things to keep out of her reach.

Pick Her Birthday or Gotcha Day

If you don't know her birthday, use the day she came home. Many cat parents call it a gotcha day. It works well for rescues, strays and any cat whose real birthday is a mystery. You can also pick a date that's easy to remember, like the first of a month.

Some people mark both days. That's fine, as long as each one stays low-key.

Whichever day you choose, keep her routine the same. Serve meals at the usual times. Leave her bed, her litter box and her favorite perch where they are. To a cat, a good day often looks a lot like yesterday.

Play Her Favorite Game

Start the day with the game she loves most. It might be a wand toy, a crinkle ball or a toy mouse tossed down the hall. You know her best.

Keep it short and keep it lively. International Cat Care (iCatCare) says cats are "sprinters rather than marathon runners." One minute of frenzied activity, it adds, is a good result. Cats are often most active at dawn and dusk, so a morning or evening game fits her clock.

End each game with a catch. Let her pounce on the toy and win. If you use a laser pointer, iCatCare suggests switching to a wand toy at the end. That way the game ends on a positive note.

Want a plan for every day, not just this one? Here's how long to play with your cat, and how often.

Give Her One New Toy

One new toy is plenty. She doesn't need a pile of gifts. iCatCare suggests keeping two or three toys going and rotating them. A toy she has "killed" soon loses its appeal.

If you'd like a toy that fits the day, LitterBond's Happy Birthday Catnip Mice come in pairs. In each pair, one corduroy mouse is stitched with "Happy Birthday" and the other is printed fabric. Each mouse has catnip inside, felt ears and a feather tail. Packs come as 3 Pairs (6 mice) or 6 Pairs (12 mice). The store picks the styles.

Be honest about catnip, though. Not every cat reacts to it. Young kittens under about six months often don't react yet. If yours shrugs, here's why some cats ignore catnip. Many cats still chase a mouse for the fun of the hunt.

Stay close while she plays. The feathers and small felt ears can be chewed off, so put the mice away after each game. Retire any mouse that is losing feathers. Keep the spares in a sealed bag and swap a few in later.

Not sure what she'd pick? Try this guide to what kind of toys cats like, sorted by play style.

Put the Party Hat on a Toy

Skip the hat on her head. The ASPCA advises against putting a cat in a costume unless you know she loves it. Anything she wears shouldn't limit how she moves, sees or breathes. Plenty of cats would rather go without.

So let a toy wear the hat instead. LitterBond's Party Hat Bungee Toys are striped plush party hats on a stretchy cord. Each hat has crinkle paper inside. An elastic loop slips over a door or wall hook you already have, since no hook is included. They come in a 3-Pack or 6-Pack. The store picks the colors.

The cord is the part to respect. An elastic cord can tangle around a cat. Hang the toy only while you're there to watch, and never leave her alone with it. Unhook it after every session and store it out of reach.

Serve a Small Snack, Not Cake

A cat's birthday needs no cake. Skip the cake, the frosting and anything from your plate. Party food for people often holds things cats shouldn't eat.

The ASPCA's list of people foods to avoid feeding your pets includes:

• chocolate, coffee and caffeine
• xylitol, a sweetener used in some gum, candy and baked goods
• grapes and raisins
• macadamia nuts, almonds, pecans and walnuts
• alcohol and yeast dough
• onions, garlic and chives
• milk and other dairy foods

Dairy surprises a lot of people. The Cornell Feline Health Center notes that many cats are lactose-intolerant. They can get tummy trouble from dairy foods. So the saucer of milk can stay in the cartoons.

What can she have? A few of her usual snacks, or part of her own dinner on a special plate.

If she eats a special diet, ask your vet before adding anything.

Keep Party Clutter Out of Reach

Tidy up before she finds the party things. Most of the risk at a birthday sits on the floor and the table.

Swallowed string is serious. VCA Animal Hospitals lists vomiting, refusing to eat, dehydration and lethargy as common signs. Think she swallowed ribbon or string? Call your vet right away, even if she seems fine. See string at her mouth or under her tail? Don't pull it. VCA's holiday hazards page says pulling it can be dangerous.

Give Her a Quiet Room

If people are coming over, set up a room just for her. Some cats enjoy company. Many would rather hide. The ASPCA suggests a space where a pet can retreat for quiet time, like an interior room.

Put her bed, water and a litter box in there before guests arrive. Let her choose when, or if, she comes out. If she tends to vanish when the doorbell rings, read why cats hide from guests, and how to help.

Take Her Photo on Her Terms

The best birthday photo is one she barely notices. Skip the posing. A hat, a sweater or being held in place can turn a sweet moment into a tense one.

A few tips that help:

• Use daylight. A sunny window gives soft light without a flash.
• Find her in her favorite spot, and get down to her eye level.
• Hold a toy just above your phone so she looks up.
• Take a burst of shots, then stop when she walks away.

Book Her Yearly Vet Check

Her birthday is an easy reminder to book a checkup. The Feline Veterinary Medical Association (FelineVMA, formerly the AAFP) says cats of every age need a full exam at least once a year. For senior cats, it recommends a checkup at least every six months. In those guidelines, senior means 10 years and older.

Book the visit for the same week each year. Then each birthday also marks one more year of care.

Keep an eye on her mood that day, too. A cat who loses interest in play and in food at the same time needs a vet check. Don't wait for her birthday for that one.

She won't know it's her birthday. She will notice the extra game, the new mouse skidding across the floor and the quiet house. If you do just one thing this year, make it that morning game. Then let her nap in the sun, right where she started.

Questions this guide did not cover

How old is my cat in human years?

Roughly 24 at age two, then about 4 more each year. International Cat Care uses that rule. On its chart, a 10-year-old cat is about 56, and a 15-year-old is about 76.

What if my cat eats something on the ASPCA list?

Call your vet, or the ASPCA Animal Poison Control Center at (888) 426-4435. That number is on the ASPCA's people foods page. Have the package handy so you can say what she ate.

Are flowers okay at a cat's birthday?

Leave lilies out. The ASPCA warns that many types of lilies found in holiday bouquets are highly toxic and can cause kidney failure in cats.

Can birthday snacks replace her dinner?

No. WSAVA says treats should never replace a meal, because every cat needs a complete and balanced diet. Serve dinner as usual and keep the extra small.

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